Marital Therapy - WEDNESDAY EDITION: Q RESPONSE

Hey am Jackson 

I have been in relationship for 3 years with this lady but the problem is that l have Never got satisfied when it comes to sex with her. When l tell her that she has not satisfied me, she always tells me of getting side dish to offset my feelings but l don't want to cheat her. What should l do.....???

HALI ILIVYO THERAPIST TEAM RESPONSE.

That's an interesting question Jackson.

When you say she does not satisfy you, do you mean you don't reach orgasm or that you do not have as much orgasms as you would like?

Its important to differentiate between the two as it determines where the problem is.

Learning about your partner is part of the fun of making love. Everyone has their own personal preferences, and everyone experiences lovemaking differently. It can be gentle and tender, or it can be wild and passionate. Take it slowly, and find out what your partner likes – you might learn something new that you both enjoy.

Good lovers talk about sex. Being a good lover means talking about what you want. Sometimes this also means saying no when you’re not in the mood, tired, or don’t feel comfortable about having sex with this person.

Men like knowing what their partner wants, and they appreciate it if she can talk about it. Then they know if they’re getting it right. And many women have questions about their partners bodies – what feels good for him?

Talk about it and find what the issue is and try to solve it together.

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