Marital Therapy - Q TEAM RESPONSE

Hy am Njoki.

This is my problem and l really need your help.Whenever am alone I do feel for sex but when am with my guy and we try making love I do not feel anything. Even wen he penetrate into me I don't feel anything. What I feel is the penis moving in and out of me. I always have to give him fake sound because he demands for it. Not that he doesn't fuck me well. He is very good but I just don't feel anything. I sometimes get angry at my self after sex. But I don't tell him my problem. So what is wrong with me.Kindly Hali ilivyo marital therapy help me know the problem.

Hi Njoki thanks for writing to us,we are so glad that you trust our team this much and we wont disappoint.Now let us respond to you.

You do it because you’re turned on, because you really want to be with someone. And often you do it because you’re in love.

Making love, or having sex, can mean different things to different people. It can mean a man putting his penis in a woman’s vagina. It can also mean other things, such as masturbating your partner, oral sex, or anal sex. There are many ways to enjoy sexual pleasure and have orgasms.

So how do you know where to start if all this is new to you?

Sometimes it’s easier to start with yourself. Masturbating or touching yourself is a good way to explore your own pleasure zones.

For most women, intercourse alone isn’t enough to trigger an orgasm. This is because the vagina is relatively insensitive, and the penis going in and out of the vagina doesn’t usually stimulate the clitoris – the most sensitive part.

You’re more likely to have an orgasm if you make sure the clitoris is part of your lovemaking, for example by rubbing with a finger or licking. You can also try fingering and oral sex.

Some women find it very difficult to have an orgasm, or don’t experience them at all. But you can still enjoy having sex without having an orgasm, and it may become easier after more experience

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