5 signs a married man is planning to hit on you

hivisasa.com May 20, 2019

It is not news to see married men going after young ladies. Sometimes they tend to forget that after getting married, one needs to settle down and act faithfully to his wife.

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There are some clear signs that show a married man is in love with you, and when he has fallen in love for you, he will not keep everything under the carpet for long, soon or later he will hit on you and open his romantic verses for you.

It is good to beware that dating or rather accepting a married man comes with consequences. 

Here are signs that show he is in love with you, and planning to make that first step:

1. He tries to spend every of his free time with you

This happens more often when you are staying at married couple's home, for instance, staying at your sister's matrimonial home. The husband will be eager to spend time with you at home, especially when your sister is not around.

2. Constant chats

This might be chats away from love related matters, but his intention will be to have you realise the attention he is giving you. Of course all women like attention from a man.

3. He starts comparing you to his wife

At this level he will be putting you on the winning side of the comparisons, for instance, he will be complimenting you on how you look awesome just like his wife when she was on campus. This clearly indicates the wife is no longer awesome before him.

4. He 'forgets' his ring whenever he is with you

Because he loves you, he feels guilty to have his ring on when you are around, for that reason he won't put it on when he meets you.

5. Opens up to you

He can go as far as telling you all her marriage problems including bedroom matters. He will be targeting to earn 'sympathy votes' from you.